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Bought a House


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By Dougie on Tuesday, February 19, 2002 - 06:31 pm:

    Yep, put down a bid yesterday, they came back, haggled once more, and it's going to contract. Gotta do all the normal crap, engineer inspection, get a lawyer etc. etc., but in 3 months, I should move into my new 3 bedroom, 2 bath cape in Baldwin Harbor, NY. It's kind of butt ugly right now, but has a lot of potential, and I'm looking forward to becoming a junior Norm Abrams. It's got ugly yellow paint with brown trim, and unfortunately, no basement since all the houses there are built on what was marsh land, but it's got a garage, screened-in back porch, quiet street, big back yard (for my tomatoes and roses and whatever the hell my girlfriend wants to plant), nice wide open kitchen, and, get this, it's about a 200 foot walk from the closest marina. Lots of parks and big wide boulevards. I'm psyched, and I feel so grown up!


By patrick on Tuesday, February 19, 2002 - 06:58 pm:

    right on!


By patrick on Tuesday, February 19, 2002 - 07:00 pm:

    im kinda bummed because this house down the street from us is up for rent. We've always admited it. Its tucked into the hill. Has a nice fenced back yard. 2bed, 1 bath, fireplace, wash/dryer hook ups and a small basement i believe and the cock suckers want $1850/month for it.

    that would be 100% increase in my rent.

    no can do.



By heather on Tuesday, February 19, 2002 - 10:11 pm:

    patrick, how is your rent so low?



    my sister is doing the house thing too. at first it was just stressful, but she got a realtor and it's turning fun.
    i keep thinking about how much 'adult' stuff her husband will have done by the time he's my age. i hope he doesn't freak out.


By patrick on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 11:27 am:

    low? i don't consider my rent low.

    but then again you're in boston, so to you, it probably is low.

    my rent is $877. If they had their way (i.e. lack of rent control) id probably be paying about $1400. We moved into this place just ahead of the Silverlake hipster rush/gentrification.




    and i meant to say above..."we always ADMIRED it" not admit.


By heather on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 12:00 pm:

    haha! i am no longer in boston!

    but my friend in boston- in a not-at-all-hip town in commuting distance of boston- pays 1200 for two rooms, a kitchen and a bathroom


By Spider on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 12:09 pm:

    My mother used to live in Beacon Hill. She paid $1200 for a room in a basement and a bathroom.


By patrick on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 12:14 pm:

    thats about par for the neighborhood now. LA has never been as expensive as San Fran and Boston because there is simply more space here.


By J on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 12:56 pm:

    Score Dougie,now you have a big tax deduction.I've always been a homebody,so is my s/o he's working on a garden project that will be really neat when it's done.All I ever wanted was to be married and have kids and a nice house.I love to decorate if anyone needs any advice decorating call me or send a e-mail,I'm not just bragging,many people have asked me if I hired a decorator to do my house,no it's thrifty me.Having a garden is good for the soul,it's so rewarding to see something you planted bloom.Are you married now?


By The Watcher on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 12:58 pm:

    Ah, the thrills of home ownership.

    Somebody pass me a bottle.

    Congradulations on buying your first house Dougie.

    One suggestion. If your as good at home repair and maintanence as I am, hire a pro.


By droopy on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 01:14 pm:

    i'm an idiot about repair and maintenance, too. but i always make sure i have "a guy." my home repair guy is buzz. as long as you have a guy you call by his first name and give the vague impression that he is somehow an employee of your estate, you can save face.

    a little.


By Dougie on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 02:09 pm:

    Thanks guys. Yeah, the thing I'm most psyched about is having the back porch, and the backyard, and being able to grill out and to garden, and wake up early on Saturdays and drink coffee and read the paper on the back porch. And having a kitchen that 2 people can fit in. And nobody walking around above me or below me. And the tax deductions. Yeah, will look into getting a "guy".

    No, not married yet, J. Probably in the fall.


By heather on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 02:40 pm:

    my uncle was always the guy, now i wonder how often he faked knowing what to do

    he also never had a real job


    now the guy will be me. me and the diy book and the internet, and anyone who's around to give an opinion.


By spunky on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 02:50 pm:

    Last time I tried a DIY job, the electric stove caught fire.....


By J on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 02:52 pm:

    Actually one of the best investments I ever made was buying a readers digest How to Fix anything boxed set for my s/o one Christmas when we were young and poor.He has saved us money by replacing moters in washers and dryers and probably more things that I'm forgetting now.


By Dougie on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 05:01 pm:

    Actually, you know how sem said he feels bad when he sees couples walking down the street? I always felt bad after going into Home Depot and seeing people buying stuff to fix up their homes and meanwhile I had a crappy apartment to come home to which I couldn't touch.


By semillama on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 06:01 pm:

    That doesn't make me feel bad, but I am
    getting more nervous about that, as I start to
    make more money and I get more tired of
    paying rent.


By patrick on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 06:16 pm:

    i would think your frequent work relocations would make home ownership a bit tough on your part. unless your employer would pay for an apartment/hotel while you're out of town working.


By Dougie on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 06:42 pm:

    Sem, get a house out in country somewhere, Powell or whatever's past New Albany etc. Assuming you're staying in the big OH. Get some land. Raise some cattle or something.


By patrick on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 06:49 pm:

    yeah sem, i totally see a dairy farm in your future.


By eri on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 07:20 pm:

    Hey Patrick, I don't know where you are in LA but I know a decent house for sale (decent meaning I don't know your bedroom requirements it is a 2 bed 2 bath with a huge office that has a 1/2 bath in it and behind the office is another bedroom with a 3/4 bath that connects to the garage). It also has a hot tub in the itty bitty back yard off of the kitchen. It used to be a house and a bail bonds on the corner of Marine Ave. & Crenshaw in Gardena. My uncle passed away this fall and his wife is selling the place. Also about 1 block away on 147th street is a 3 bdrm. house with a den and a back yard and separate 2 car garage that goes for $1000 a month. The only problem with that one would be that the Christian Puritanical neighbors can be extremely nosey on one side. The ones on the other side are cool.

    My cousin is paying $550 a month for a 1 bdr. apartment in Gardena. It has mice and it is itty bitty and the landlord is an ass.

    I always liked LA


By patrick on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 07:31 pm:

    holy shit girl. thats in the ghetto!!!!

    flanked by compton and inglewood?????

    thanks for the offer but you couldn't pay me to live in Gardena.



    actually practically speaking it would be insane for us to live there, as I work in downtown hollywood, she works in downtown LA....so silverlake is ideal.


By semillama on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 08:37 pm:

    I wouldn't mind a farm, but cattle? no.

    Llamas, of course.

    Also, when I go away, work pays for food and
    lodging.


By eri on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 09:21 pm:

    Silverlake is great.

    Most of my family has chose ghetto areas. Gardena, Hawthorne (two blocks away from the airport in an illegally converted garage), Lakewood, and Long Beach. Those are most of the places I have been to recently. Of course, my uncle has a beach house in Torrance, one block from the beach. He likes to pretend to be uppity.


By Nate on Wednesday, February 20, 2002 - 10:20 pm:

    because Torrance is the seat of uppity county.

    i spent a merry week at the torrance hilton. i didn't step foot out of the building until i got in the cab back to the airport.


By agatha on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 03:00 am:

    sem, did you see the job posting i sent you?

    i'm telling you, you could net babes in olympia. and buy a house, if that's what you wanted.


By eri on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 08:38 am:

    My point being that Torrance isn't uppity, therefore he has to pretend to be.


By Fb on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 08:42 am:

    i thought "the ghetto" was cool....too much MTV?


By dave. on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 09:18 am:

    hiring freeze in wa. state govt.


By semillama on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 09:49 am:

    5{ don't have enough experience.
    THey only post the minimum requirements,
    not waht it actually takes to get the job. Anyone
    with NW coast experience will automatically
    get selected over someone withot that
    experience. That's how it works.


By heather on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 10:45 am:

    so you better not try


By patrick on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 11:47 am:

    eri i've spent very little time south of downtown. from what i've surveyed though. its all ass. torrence is ass. westchester, inglewood, anaheim, gardena, bellflower, long beach, all ass and nothing more.

    its too suburban with no culture, just strip malls and confused people in minivans and SUVs.


By eri on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 11:58 am:

    I pretty much agree. I haven't found much out there I would go back to, other than visiting my family. I haven't ever really seen any culture there. Just people who spend their life struggling to get absolutely nowhere. I also think the area is just too overpopulated for my taste. Not that I like the country, I just don't want to live there. I like it here.

    I honestly had no clue where you were in the L.A. area, so I just thought I would offer an idea.


By patrick on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 12:09 pm:

    as far as im concerned, those areas arent really LA. They might as well be in Kansas. They don't embody anything notable of this area. They are just sprawled areas developed from white flight in the 40s thru the 80s.

    Whats worth while about LA is in LA proper and 2 hours away at the same time.


By eri on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 12:17 pm:

    Two hours away? The only time I spent two hours on the roads out there was when I would go from Apple Valley/Victorville to Redondo Beach or Temecula.

    I do agree about the developments from the 40's to the 80's. Saw a lot of it. That is part of why my parents moved to the country. They got tired of seeing the same thing over and over again. I guess to them even hick culture was better than no culture.


By patrick on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 12:24 pm:

    Big Bear mtns 2 hours away

    Santa Barbara and the best beaches 2 hours

    Joshua Tree and LSD desert around 3 hours






By Platypus on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 01:14 pm:

    Mendocino 12 hours...

    Driving, anyway. I guess if you did the whole drive to SFO and fly thing it would be about five hours away.

    Anyway. I have to admit, being from northern california, that I fear most of southern california. Not that we don't have confused people driving suvs or anything...they've started infiltrating even up here. But there, it's hot *and* there are confused people driving suvs. Anyway.


By agatha on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 02:37 pm:

    they are still hiring, even though there is a "hiring freeze." my boss hired three people this week.

    that job has been posted for about six months, it can't hurt to try, sem.


By Czarina on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 04:26 pm:

    Congrads Dougie!!!!!!!


By semillama on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 05:11 pm:

    I;m actually pretty happy with my job right now.
    The state archaeologist job would mean no
    fieldwork, just oversight of projects and
    dealing with laws and tragedy and crap.

    At least I still get to DIG.

    Plus, see tale of sem and dating service II.


By Dougie on Thursday, February 21, 2002 - 07:13 pm:

    Thanks Cz!


By Cat on Friday, February 22, 2002 - 04:16 am:

    Hey Dougie. Landowner. Person of property.

    Yay you.

    Look forward to seeing the pics.


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