i have nothing to say


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By MD on Wednesday, March 30, 2005 - 11:49 pm:

    I have always had a BIG problem when i am talking to people...women in particular. All of my life it seems like i never have anything to say, i find out their favorites(ex. movie's color, things to do, etc) and then i never have anything to say. I go to dances and aske girls to dance and when i dance it seems like i am SOOOO boring because i can never find anything to talk about. i guess all im askin is for help on how to bring stuff up or to say sumthin about it(yes ive tried the what do you do for fun and what did you do today) it seems like NONE of it lasts long enough. please help me with working on how the hell to find stuff to talk about


By jack on Thursday, March 31, 2005 - 12:32 am:

    get an education. be interested in many things. enjoy a variety of subjects and activities. even if they seem somewhat weird at first, check 'em out.
    the things that seem REALLY weird...probably are really weird. you might end up enjoying them anyway. different strokes for different folks.

    the more things you know about and enjoy, the more you'll have to think and talk about and the less boring you'll be.


By MD on Thursday, March 31, 2005 - 12:38 am:

    thanks for the advice jack:D ill work on that


By wisper on Thursday, March 31, 2005 - 02:15 pm:

    MD, do you have an easy time talking to other guys? It's not that different. People crash and burn talking to the opposite sex because they seem to think that it's a *whole other ballgame*. It's not.
    Start thinking of everyone as potential friends, not potential dates. It will really change things for you.

    And stop going to dances, they're a breeding ground for awkwardness. Dances suck.


By MD on Thursday, March 31, 2005 - 08:52 pm:

    actually i have a tough time talking to pretty much anyone. but with guys it seems like i can say anything and they wont care(like drinking or partying for example) but it seems like women dont really like that stuff but really it's tough for me to talk to almost anyone


By TBone on Friday, April 1, 2005 - 03:51 pm:

    Don't try to impress them, just have a conversation.