I think that people who really are pains in the ass never wonder this so I may be immune. I would like to not feel guilty every time I need someone to lean on, as I graciously accept people leaning on me all the time. Luckily I always find beaus who act like it is a crime for me to have a bad day. This is the burden of people who are mostly happy and up. That whenever we act human, we find people who will be mad at us for being that way. Stinks.