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| By Spiracle on Saturday, February 28, 1998 - 06:14 pm: |
after only a few weeks of knowing each other.. and i lied.. i'm not quite sure why though.. i didn't want to hurt his feelings and we were right in the middle of.. anyway.. i lied.. thinking maybe i would at one point love oh well.. is it just harder to be honest when you're young? |
| By TBone on Sunday, March 22, 1998 - 02:22 pm: |
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| By Anna on Tuesday, August 11, 1998 - 05:39 pm: |
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| By Anna on Tuesday, August 11, 1998 - 05:39 pm: |
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| By Anna on Tuesday, August 11, 1998 - 05:40 pm: |
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| By Markus on Wednesday, August 12, 1998 - 05:16 pm: |
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| By Starchy on Thursday, August 13, 1998 - 09:49 am: |
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Love in truth is the most powerful of all emotions. |
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Love is powerful, and it is a powerful feeling. I went dancing with my husband and some friends on Friday night and as we were slow dancing and singing to each other, I felt like a school kid falling in love for the first time, falling for him all over again. I was weak in the knees and he had to hold me up a couple of times. I have never had that feeling with anyone else, not even my ex. It was the most powerful feeling. It happens to me every time I rock my kids to sleep and every time I braid Hayley's hair. It is definately there. I do remember dating a guy who swore he loved me and wanted me to move in with him. That was a lie. His intentions were only to get me away from my parents house so he could get me into his bed. I learned that, and it hurt a lot. I have never told someone I loved them when I didn't. I have still managed to hurt some badly while dating. I just don't have it in me to lie about love. I didn't like it when it happened to me and I couldn't do it to someone else. |
Love could be an emotion but its much much more... It spans beyond emotion. |
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but the imagie i buidl of someone will awyas be mroe than they will ever be so never act on it. AGH |
And I honestly don't know if the incredibly wonderful sense of total well being,total exposure of true and vulnerable self,and needs,[and fulfillments],of rightness,of "nothing else in the world matters,as long as we have this",the exhilirating high of being with the person you are destined to be with,is worth the devasting pain,of the loss of that love,[for whatever reason]. Is it better to have loved,[and experienced those incredibily wonderful emotions],{and then be without them},or to have never experienced them in the first place,and not be aware of what one is left without? I don't know.Love hurts. |
Someone else said that love is an action too. Love your neighbor as yourself. Not an emotion (a combination of feeling -physical- and thinking -cognitive). Not a feeling (mad sad glad scared). There's usually not enough to go around. Pass the kibbles. You can say and say it and mean it and mean it but unless you act it...show it...live it...work it...it is not love. |
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that is to say, no one can say what love is; is it Hollywood? how much so? is it toil without hope of reward? how much so? and it's different for each of us. In honor of this wonderful fact, I've decided to be in love today. with.... YOU!!! |
Excuse me whilst I go vomit. HA! |
I have trouble accepting the person I love's definition of love. There is a madness in that. |
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Catakins, ya can't judge True Love by that. Supposed you were worshipping the porcelain bowl at the same time he was hurling into the sink becuz you'd already claimed the toilet? He wdn't be able to hold yr hair back then/but it wdn't be due to lack of love. I say it's True Love when they sleep on the wet spot for you. Or when they leave the last bit of Ben & Jerry's for you. Or the last shot of Patron. Or when they change the litter box even tho' it's yr cat & don't mention it at all. Or the Truest Test: When he'll run to Walmart @ 3am & buy you tampons or pads -- or both! -- while you're bleeding on the loo/waiting for supplies. Love doesn't get any truer than that. Short of agreeing to give you a kidney. |
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Or, performing the grossest personal "non sexual" task with out complaining. |
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I could tell you why Im with who Im with, and Im sure you could scrape a heap of love off it, amongst other things. |
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at a time. and poland spring sparkling water |
at a time. and poland spring sparkling water |