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The face laying in your fucking bed is not the one you want, but you fucked it up, had sex with someone else, then told the girlfriend "I did it since I did not want to force you into having sex". She cries she kicks your sorry ass out, honesty is always knowing when to tell the right lies at the right time, but the face laying next to you changes and you see the one person you can never have. Having got up and had a drink, it hit's like a hammer "I have to spend the rest of this life seeing the one face I can never have". You go back to bed, and you feel empty, lonely and what the fuck is truth when honesty means living alone. |
Well that's the theory, still looking for the other face myself. It seems a LONG time though doesn't it? Is hope a blessing or a curse? I'll tell you when I'm dead. |
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VCF is a translucent square of material containing the active ingredient Nonoxynol-9, a widely used highly efficient spermicide. Placed high in the vagina as close as possible to the neck of the womb [cervix], it dissolves into a gel which exerts a powerful contraceptive effect against sperm. It is a potent spermicidal agent used successfully by millions of women. Inserted into the vagina before intercourse it need cause no interruption into the lovemaking. It becomes unnoticeable by either partner. Because VCF is small and unnoticed in use, it can be used discreetly by the woman. VCF dissolves within minutes and maintains its spermicidal action for one hour. It does not run and will not stain. VCF is eventually washed away with the natural body fluids. The best source of information on the use of contraceptives is your family physician or family planning clinic. How to Use VCF® 1. VCF should always be placed high in the vagina on the cervix. Th efingers should be completely dry before touching VCF. 2. Insert VCF at least 15 minutes and not more than 1 hour before intercourse. 3. If more than 1 hour elapses before intercourse takes place, another VCF contraceptive insert should be used. One VCF should be used before each act of intercourse, regardless of the time factor. As with all vaginal contraceptives, douching should be delayed for atleast 6 hours after intercourse. |
walkin the tight rope |
VCF seems to exist for a fairly tight window. |
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Sort of, y'know, generically anti-climactic. 15 minutes is like a fucking miracle. I haven't been laid in months, though, by choice. Had my ultrasound today. 2-3 days and my dr. will tell me what's what. Can I hear halleluia. Think it's gonna be the pill. I like the pill anyway, so that's not a bad thing. I miss Semillama. |
they put me on the pill for ovarian cysts too margret. the "cure", they said. shut the ovaries down, no cysts. but being on the pill made me psychotic and suidical around month 9 so i dropped out of the program. just be careful. ask about options, do some research on your own. good luck. if i'm lucky, the actual sexual penetration part of sex lasts about 15-30 minutes, which to me is just about right. a few times i think i've gone up to 45-50 minutes, but rarely. it's hard work fucking for that long. i never heard of VCF before, thanks for the info! sounds like it would be a really good option (if i was fertile). |
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It takes longer than that just to wash a car properly. There's fucking... then there's getting served -- i.e. so you ain't looking for seconds. In my experience/the longest lays come from taking it slow. (Which ain't to say that quickies are without their charms.) There's lots of stuff you can do btwn initial penetration & the climax. That VCF stuff sounds too complicated. Sometimes/you think you're gonna end up in bed in an hour/but it takes longer. Or you thought you cd wait 15 min./but you don't. And I'm sure those little squares of film are expensive. (Does it protect against HIV also?) If you can tolerate it/The Pill (the single, consistent dose kind) is great. I was on Ortho Novum 1/50's from Frosh year til I turned 28. 11 yrs. total. (I quit becuz I was approaching 30 & didn't wanna give up smoking. Plus/Herpes & AIDS were out & abt/so I switched to condoms circa 1989). I remember gaining a little (like 7 lbs.) weight during the 1st 2 mos. But after that/I had no problems. It kept my PMS in check & eliminated my cramps. And if I was going away for Spring Break w/my guy & didn't wanna have my period on the beach in Jamaica/I'd take it for 4 or 5 wks. straight -- w/no period & no problems. (That's the best thing abt The Pill -- you can skip menstruating altogether if it's not convenient. But not for too long.) And knowing I didn't have to even think abt getting pregnant made my sex life fabulous. I hope The Pill w/help yr wayward ovary, Margaret. But remember -- even on The Pill/ya still gotta use condoms. Promise? |
.......any of you folks gettin 15 minutes should be pissed...if i got 15...i would have issues...like RC, a quickie can be good, but in my house their seems to be a tacit 2 to 1 rule....in her favor......she works me that way |
(Be sure & give some tips to yr sons/if you've got any.) |
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i think a hysterectomy is a little extreme for cysts, especially to treat fluid cysts (as opposed to tissue cysts). if you're into the pill, more power to ya. i personally think most horomone-based birth control... especially when used as therapy to treat things like acne, cramps, and cysts... is evil in theory and subversive and lazy on the part of the medical community. but, as a professional in the medical industry, i've earned the distrust and paranoia. oh. and i don't think love is self abuse if you're loving in the right kind of way. |
anyway, is the sponge available again in the states yet? I've heard it's being re-released, but is it actually available in drugstores yet? I think sponges might be safe enough to use as solo contraception on probably non-fertile days. I've been doing a lot of research. |
I will continue to use them regardless of oral contraception because all pregnancies must be cleared through the chemicals first, and because I don't even remember what a naked penis feels like and I don't care. Maybe someday I will want to have children. Then, THEN, I will go apache, |
......"with blueberries please" |
I cannot understand the draw to condomless sex this day and age. The whole "bareback" movement is very frightening. I can understand if you are in a committed relationship wanting that "last barrier" removed, but let's be realistic folks! If you want to get preggers, then ok. Go for it. But especially in circles where conception isn't a possibility, this sort of behavior is mindboggling considering the possible ramifications. Waffleboy, they make extra large condoms now for that exact reason. God forbid the netherlands get cut off! |
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i think i clocked about 3 hours, but that was aided by certain narcotics that made it possible |
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have you ever done an eightball and been with a girl? You might understand how 3 hours can pass without realizing...it is possible and I ain't counting the smoochin, when your are high like that, all you want to do is fuck, foreplay was not on the menu for either of us |
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I am not Waffleboy. But I do think he's cool. |
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. . . among other things. A couple of lengthy mea culpa's followed. As baseball hall of famer George Brett said following his 1980 laser surgery for hemmorhoids, "It's all behind me now." |
anyone here a hockey fan?? |
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It was divine. I wish I still had that coke connection... |
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tweakers are people who do lots of crystal meth. |
To RC, I'm not trying to be insulting but what is your age and what area do you live? I didn't think that there was anyone out there who didn't know what a "tweaker" is. |
like meth. |
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Believe me/I woulda remembered. |
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