just whining

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By Bettey on Sunday, August 1, 1999 - 11:06 pm:

    I spent most of the day thinking my lover was coming over tonight for an all-night fuck-fest. (We don't have an actual relationship, we just have raucous, bed-shaking, screaming sex once a week or so.)

    Anyway, he just called to say he is too tired and it's too hot so he's not coming over.

    UGH!

    I guess I shouldn't whine since I AM getting fab sex on a semi-reglar basis, but it's been over 2 weeks and I'm going through withdrawal. (I know, I know. Now I'll get assaulted by all the folks who haven't had sex in 2 years or something.)

    Well, thanks for listening to my whine anyway.

By TBone on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 01:03 am:

    It doesn't bother you that there's no relationship?

By Gee on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 02:11 am:

    They're lovers. That's a relationship.

    It always makes me uncomfterble the way the word "relationship" is used to describe people who are romantically involved.

By Cyst on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 03:55 am:

    two weeks? what happened last weekend?

    maybe he's trying to break the arrangement.

By Waffles on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 12:55 pm:

    i would have the shakes by now, so don't feel bad

By Simon on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 01:59 pm:

    If I was in your shoes I'd start looking for interesting places to masturbate.

By Cyst on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 02:05 pm:

    according to the kinsey report, every average man you know much prefers his lovey-dovey to court when the temperature is low.

By Waffleboy on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 02:16 pm:

    hmm..plausible..however, it seems my libido is not temp sensitive

By Bagpuss on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 05:05 pm:

    You're umm friends.
    As in this is joe he's my ummm friend.

    I've got one of them too. Had sex on my roof this weekend.


    When I call to say I'm too hot I just don't feel like or I think it's getting like a relationship.

    Two weeks is a long time though...

By Bettey on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 07:48 pm:

    Nope, it doesn't bother me that there's no romantic relationship. It makes things much less stressful.

    BTW, we had a wonderful quickie this afternoon. Damn he's so good!

By TBone on Saturday, August 7, 1999 - 04:10 am:

    Interesting. I don't think I could handle it. I take sex too personally.

    Sorry about the "relationship" thing. I do realize that a relationship isn't necessarily a romantic one.