I spent most of the day thinking my lover was coming over tonight for an all-night fuck-fest. (We don't have an actual relationship, we just have raucous, bed-shaking, screaming sex once a week or so.) Anyway, he just called to say he is too tired and it's too hot so he's not coming over. UGH! I guess I shouldn't whine since I AM getting fab sex on a semi-reglar basis, but it's been over 2 weeks and I'm going through withdrawal. (I know, I know. Now I'll get assaulted by all the folks who haven't had sex in 2 years or something.) Well, thanks for listening to my whine anyway.

It doesn't bother you that there's no relationship?

They're lovers. That's a relationship. It always makes me uncomfterble the way the word "relationship" is used to describe people who are romantically involved.

two weeks? what happened last weekend? maybe he's trying to break the arrangement.

i would have the shakes by now, so don't feel bad

If I was in your shoes I'd start looking for interesting places to masturbate.

according to the kinsey report, every average man you know much prefers his lovey-dovey to court when the temperature is low.

hmm..plausible..however, it seems my libido is not temp sensitive

You're umm friends. As in this is joe he's my ummm friend. I've got one of them too. Had sex on my roof this weekend. When I call to say I'm too hot I just don't feel like or I think it's getting like a relationship. Two weeks is a long time though...

Nope, it doesn't bother me that there's no romantic relationship. It makes things much less stressful. BTW, we had a wonderful quickie this afternoon. Damn he's so good!

Interesting. I don't think I could handle it. I take sex too personally. Sorry about the "relationship" thing. I do realize that a relationship isn't necessarily a romantic one.