Pornography As Marital Aids?????


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By Curious waffles on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 05:31 pm:

    Does anyone here who has a significant other watch porno with your mate? If so, what is the outcome? I have found women become critical of the one's on the TV, and it doesn nothing to enhance sexlife? I ahve also found that they don't excite women like they may excite a man.......thought i would throw this one out sicne it seems it hasn't been covered yet........

    any thought


By FETIDBEAVER on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 06:44 pm:

    Aaaah, well, she's the one that ask's me to go to the video store. Then she'll go upstairs and watch for awhile. When I come up she's ready to go. The trick is to not act more interested in the movie than her.


By Waffleboy on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 06:57 pm:

    understood, this came to mind because we were at the video store this weekend, and there was this attractive cple in the porn section, and the thought kinda of appealed to me. I only have a few that a friend passed on to me, and the one we made with some other friends and well, she is so critical, "oh my god THOSE arent real!!' "She 's not really coming.." "look how small that guys pecker is.." so on and so forth, advise taken under consideration


By FETIDBEAVER on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 07:04 pm:

    Maybe she secretly enjoys them but doesn't feel comfortable admitting it.


By Waffleboy on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 07:10 pm:

    SHE'S PRETTY OPEN....lemme take that back, she is very open and admits all, she thinks they are silly and only slightly a turn on, she's much more mental as far as getting turned on


By Rhiannon on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 08:59 pm:

    Without going into details, let me just say that I've seen my share of the *ahem* pornographic moving pictures, and they don't do much for me either. Mostly because they're so staged, and it's so obvious the people involved aren't really *involved*. He's on one end of the room, she's on the other, they're barely touching except at the necessary points, they don't look at each other, it's just empty. And boring. And fake.

    There's only one scene that I ever found to be a turn-on, and unfortunately I can't remember the name of the film it was in, but it was between an older (late 30s- 40s) couple, who were VERY into each other, and you could just see how much they relished each touch and sound and movement, and they ignored the camera and focused on each other and it was just...well, it was incredible. They should show that scene in school to teach kids what passionate and loving sex looks like.


By Lucy Phurre on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 10:53 pm:

    On a similar note, a friend of mine says he'd rather hear the actors than that bullshit moan-track.
    Even if they're just talking about what they had for lunch (and they probably are)
    "So what did you think of the pasta salad."
    "Oh, it was okay, a little vinegary"
    "Oh, well, I just skipped it and had the pastrami on rye"

    I mean, come on, these people are at work (at least in reputable pornos)
    They're probably not really all that excited.

    But my friend (and I agree with him) would rather hear the above conversation than a looped recording of "Oh, baby"'s.

    Which reminds me...re: pornos, there's one I'm looking for. It's called "Barbara the Barbarian"
    It was made in the seventies and it was reccommended to me by a friend.
    He said, it's like someone thought "people laugh at pornos anyway, so why don't we make one that's actually funny?"
    So it's a pornographic comedy.
    Anyone heard of it?


By FETIDBEAVER on Monday, August 2, 1999 - 11:08 pm:

    My wife turns the sound off and what turns her on about the porno's is a certain theme/fantasy.


By Lawanda on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 11:18 am:

    I'd watch one, but believe it or not, you can't get one in Orofino. At least not at a video rental place.

    Get this: They have "The Full Monty" sitting in the so called sex-video section. With "9 1/2 Weeks", that Cindy Crawford movie, and other such things that look really weak. They obviously never watched the movie. If you're looking for titilation, that isn't the movie. Funnier than get-out, but not sexy.

    When I was younger, I was chronically indignant about porn. I grew out of that. I still get all embarrassed and turned on at the same time.


By Waffles on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 11:59 am:

    yeah, i think she would agree with you, Lucy, Rhiannon.......and to a certain extent I do as well, but I can't deny, and I dare and fella to contradict, the raw element of SEX there, if you strip personality, love, passion, emotion whathave you from the film, what have are body parts doing the thing that makes your body parts feel good, it's a projection thing, you substitute yourself, nevermind the fantasy scenario shit, the scenarios are all the same, however they do have some hilarious spin offs (i.e. DEEP IMPACT).....it's not an issue between us, as I said, I saw that couple in the video store and the thought resurged itself


By Waffles on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 11:59 am:

    yeah, i think she would agree with you, Lucy, Rhiannon.......and to a certain extent I do as well, but I can't deny, and I dare any fella to contradict, the raw element of SEX there, if you strip personality, love, passion, emotion whathave you from the film, what have are body parts doing the thing that makes your body parts feel good, it's a projection thing, you substitute yourself, nevermind the fantasy scenario shit, the scenarios are all the same, however they do have some hilarious spin offs (i.e. DEEP IMPACT).....it's not an issue between us, as I said, I saw that couple in the video store and I was curious to talk to others, particularly girls about the subject, thanks for the input


By Waffles on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 02:58 pm:


By Lucy Phurre on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 03:24 pm:

    Another good game is to get really drunk with a lot of friends and play soundless pornos, and make up the dialog.


By Waffles on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 03:30 pm:

    me and my s/o prefer naked twister


By J on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 04:02 pm:

    One of my favorite lines is "it,s the best way I can help myself",I started saying it after being drunk with some friends and watching the funniest porn movie,some guy had just ran out a room after 3 girls had wore him out,he,s yelling help me,help me,and some guy just starts fucking him in the ass,while he,s telling him."Here,(ramming)this is the best way I can help you"


By Waffles on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 04:10 pm:

    J!!!

    you MUST be drinkin again, i love it!!


By MRS. Waffleboy on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 05:42 pm:

    Mrs. Waffleboy SPEAKS!!!!!!!!!!!!! via remote email.......


    "I totally agree with Rhiannon or however you spell her name. I couldn't
    have said it better. Of course you imagine yourself in those positions
    (ahem), but moreso pornos are just cheesy. The staged set-ups, the awful
    moans (I mean really, I've done & heard my share of sexy, sweaty cries in
    the throes of passion, but does anyone ever say, "Yeah baby I'm gonna stick
    you good." PLEASE!) I get more turned-on by my own imagination, or my lover
    talking to me, it's more real, somehow."


By Porn monkey on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 07:28 pm:

    damn, whatever happened to willing suspension of disbelief?


By J on Tuesday, August 3, 1999 - 08:13 pm:

    One time eons ago Bruce and I went to an adult bookstore,we went in the back where there were booths with a curtain(really sleazy)you put quarters in the machine to see the movie.I don,t know what he was watching,but I got John Holmes and a Marylin Monroe look-a-like.At one point I had to say to Bruce,"get in here you won,t believe it",he comes in and we are like saying,"Oh my God she,s gonna sit on it".Next thing I knew,someone was trying to get in our booth,we just ran out of there.


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