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you start going out with someone, and you meet one of their friends...and you end up liking the friend more... well, this happened to me not too long ago. I was attracted to my man's best friend...and one day when my man was out of town, me and his friend...well, you know. Anyway, we decided to tell my man about this; and to make a long story short, we worked everything out and i am still going out with my man...but problem is...i'm still attracted to his friend... What do i do? |
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Uh oh now I've got Bon Jovi's You Give Love a Bad Name running through my head. and its all your fault. Damn you Jon! Damn you! |
you should break up with the man you aren't interested in, and go for the friend. It's not fair to either of you. |
Really, I'd like 'em both, but that's not feasible |
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I am young, but i like to think i'm sort of mature. Because i did pick my man for his personality. But every once in a while, you want looks. Why can't i find a man with both! Ok, his friend has both. And yeah, i kind of hinted on the 3-way thing, but that usually just fucks up relationships and friendships. Already, our relationship is alot different because i fooled around with his friend. And their friendship is not the same as it use to be. |
i felt the same way when i was younger. now i'm still young, but not as young, and i revel in the fact that i can be immature. and no one can do a damn thing about it. by the way, if you're not going to kill yourself you should just sleep around a lot. if you're young, don't tie yourself down. |
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he helped me and my friends come in third last night at trivia. he knew what shaft's first name was. we won christmas bows, a bouncing ball, glow-in-the-dark lizards. then we drank a lot of beer, then we drank a lot of wine, then we smoked a lot of pot. then he explained why he liked me. "yeah, I know a lot of girls who are total hotties, and I know a lot of girls who are total dorks, but I hardly know anyone who's both." |
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I wish I weren't becoming friends with these guys I'm seeing. it's much harder to write stories about them now. I totally kicked ass at scrabble tonight. I used all seven letters on my second turn. at the start of the date we had cheeseburgers and at the end we had french toast. I know I should get a job and a boyfriend, but this is really a lot of fun. |
i think, on a subconscious level, I'm trying to break up with him, without actually telling him i want to break up. And i dont know why, i love him...but i think it just scares me because we've been goin out about 4 months and almost every day he tells me he want to marry me. I just smile and nod. |
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don't fret about it. just tell him it's over. four months is not very long. the longer you wait, the more you'll hurt him. etc. after you break up with him, you'll fuck his friend a whole lot for like two weeks. then you'll realize there was nothing to it except that you previously weren't allowed. and you'll stop calling each other. he and your boyfriend will stop talking to each other. but they may realize how stupid the whole thing was and may become friends again someday. |
And why do people think that because you're attracted to someone you have to act on it? |
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Just let me know. j....we'll find out if they have pictures of us now :) |
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