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id say due to the fact that many of us 'know' each other and the topic takes on some sort of awkwardness. also the number of couples on sorabji has double in the last year or so setting a potential for danger. so im attempting to bring this topic back with hopes to curb some of the hard-on killing war chat my sex life has essentially been curbed. no surprise there. my body seems to be taking it well, but my brain sometimes takes issue with whats transpiring. i feel in the end its making me a bit stronger, the nature-imposed abstinence. this morning i was a bit grumpy getting dressed, trying on several shirts. nico, in her daze from the covers voiced approval for a particular shirt that just didnt work for me. she said disapointed when I took it off, saying it was sexy and was wishing i would wear it for her. i refused saying it didnt matter if i was sexy or not. of course this sucked for her. and now requires some work on my part. i think today would be a good day to go to the shopping center across the street to find that night gown ive been meaning to get her to give birth in. sex? want it? think of it? seen any good sex on the teley? are you incomfortable? |
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Okay its a really lame game. |
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shiiiiiiiit. where do i start? (of course, i do realize this thread has "sarah bait" written all over it.) |
start with the worst and work towards the best...however that may pan out sarah. |
However, pushing a button twice to spend 11 dollars on 4 different channels of hardcore for 3 hours is wayyyy too easy. |
not that i've ever done this. i abhor porn. |
Better to have sex with your friends than sex with your enemies. |
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nevermind. |
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who are your enemies moonie |
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speaking of sex... it's a done deal. i'll be in new orleans from march 11th - 14th, staying at a hotel on Rampart Street. this is an open invitation if anyone wants to meet up with me. i do plan on contributing more to this thread at some point. patrick's right... it's about time. |
i'm too embarrassed to talk about this subject. i almost did, though. |
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what were those dates again? |
is that "t" up there? what the hell is that chå®åçter? whoa. i'm dog sitting for a friend usin© ?´® using her new imac and the keyboard is weird. the new imacs at work don't do that. the invitation is not to have sex with me. none of you currently are invited to have sex with me. except for... oh nevermind. but y'all are invited to meet me in new orleans. |
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who? and would someone other than sarah please talk about sex. pregnant sex is kinda kinky. there. ok. and you know why its kinda kinky? because the traditional format is not really plausible. You must improvise. NEEEXT! |
speaking of that, the period is late. Goody, goody. Not that it runs on any normal schedual, mind you, but it is late, even for me. If it's not here by next week, i've got some thinking to do. Did i say thinking? because there's really no thinking involved, not for me. For me it would only be choosing suction, a pill, or magic herbal-type shit. yup. no difficult thinking here. It would still blow, though. What a lovely monday!! But wait... february is shorter that january.... hmmm. oh, still, i'll give it till next week. this is fun, isn't it? It's so great being a chick. i love it. just sitting here, drinking tea, praying for blood, contemplating wether or not i'm gonna have to....call some people. People who know more about this sort of thing. well, anyway, it's all free of course. no worries. It's usually the worrying that makes it later. That's the really sweet part. mmmmm, tea. |
General opinions? I am pretty supportive of any kind of sex--casual, group, auto-erotic--as long as it is safer and takes place between consenting individuals. I do not believe that humans are "naturally" monogamous or that in every instance it is the ideal that we should all strive for, but that doesn't make it undesirable either. I'm being completely idealistic. I do think in a world where there was more respect for sexual variety (in both practice and orientation), there would still be monogamy. Otherwise, I have little, if any, tolerance for infidelity because love, devotion, jealousy, and betrayal are as real and as powerful as sexual drives/urges and temptation or whatever it is that make these humans do what they do. God I sound like an ass when I am uncomfortable telling personal stories. |
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There was a long time where I would have slept with Hal had he asked me (I think that was pretty obvious) but that time has past. Especially since I don't know how to reach him anymore. Lately sex has been reserved for the weekends. Every other if I'm lucky. Right now it's been two weeks and I'll wait another week and a half. While I'm waiting, I perform. Mostly karaoke, but it forces me to talk to people and stay out of the house. At home I tend to be reclusive and perhaps even a tad O/C. Hopefully that will change with time and much effort on my part. Having friends to pull me out helps a ton. |
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does it gross him out more than you puking on him in a drunken stupor? |
it was more hilarious than gross as it wasnt like she blew chunks.....just mostly the beer she had been drinking. I laughed the whole time she cleaned me up. |
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Can I have the pictures of Sem? |
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kazoo. he has nakie pics of most us. you'd be wise to get yours in sooner than later. |
That's a GREAT out of context quote. Nate has graciously volunteereed his service in making sure that none of us will ever have to hold public office. |
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nate does not have any nudies of me. |
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What would you guys do if you noticed your neighbor watching you through your sliding glass door? |
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i need more stories! more! |
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of course, i can't say that i wanted to hear it. |
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in some states your living room can be considered a public domain if you are seen from the sidewalk. so thats not entirely true. i cashed all my outdoor kink from the ages of 6-14 because there was no where else to go. |
I could send them back |
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I am afraid that by that time in my life I hadn't even had my first kiss. Sad, but true. I guess the back patio is the closest I have ever come to outdoor kink. I still have my carginity for chrissakes. I need to work on this. |
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wednesday after work i debated going to the gym, or going for a walk, or going to the garden, or going home and making a margartia. my co-worker talked me into going for a walk to my garden with a margarita. but by the time i got home, i just wanted to eat and drink tequila. so that's what i did. kevin's been working way late hours, and after my first drink i called to invite him over for dinner. he showed up after my second drink and we had salmon and salad and fresh from the oven cornbread. then he went to the gym for 30 minutes, and called me to come over when he got home. in the meantime i had had two more drinks, packed a few boxes*, and talked on the phone with Greg. so about 10 p.m. i drove over to kevin's and we hung out with his brother and he drank a few beers, and we ate those new oreo cookies, and watched TV and goofed around. then we went to bed. it's not always 100% that we'll fuck when i spend the night. sometimes i just spend the night, mostly when one of is really tired. but i was all over him the instant we got into bed. he laughed and said, "i'm sorry to see you're so shy, sarah!" i worked him up a little bit, but there was no foreplay for me. within a minute or two we were having sex, and a few minutes later i had an orgasm, and a few minutes later he had one. boom. easy as pie, good, hot sex. he's the one who gave me my first vaginal orgasm (no clitoral stimulation whatsoever), and continues to make it happen like nobody else has. i don't know what it is about the chemistry between us, but the sex is just perfect. he knows exactly what to do, how he holds my hands up above my head and talks dirty to me, how slow to move, the exact right angle of my legs, etc. and i know exactly what he likes. it's what we do, and it never gets tiresome, old, or boring. sometimes we change it up a little, but there's definitely a formula that works for us. there's also a lot of trust, which helps a lot. we can let it all hang out with each other and know that whatever it is on any given night, it's all good. we really work each other's fantasies. so yeah, it's probably not that good for me emotionally. i'm not attached to him romantically though, just sexually. and i enjoy his friendship occassionally, and rely on him for certain types of personal support. he has this way of handling me, of discussing things with me, that nobody else understands. i'm not sure if this is entirely healthy, given that i'm dating a few other guys (Glen, Greg). does this mean i lack scruples? does the state of the relationship prevent me from moving on? does it hinder my growth in some way? i don't know. i don't particularly care right now. * i'm moving to a HUGE new house, with a new housemate who is totally cool. no lease, either, so i'm free to go whenever i'm ready. |
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(Hey, those who can't, teach, right?) |
if the backup knows he's a just that (backup is not the best of terms because it implies second best which may or may not be the case). If anything she is just filling in the gaps with Kevin. If you don't seem a fully functional and healthy relationship with one sole person and are enjoying yourself, there is no harm. i wouldnt recommend getting stuck in that kind of patterned behavior for long, but it can be good in short bursts. |
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ewwww. i'm not poly. i'm just sleeping around. |
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So there. |
if you question the situation your in, fine. if you have doubts about the situation your in, stop, look around, figure out if it really is what you want/need.... and like patrick said... if your honest with all parties, who cares, ride'm cowboy!! (girl) [Agatha, what about the other guys? (im assuming that shes also sleeping with them on occasion] should she stop sleepin with them too? or just the one that really knows how to turn her crank??? |
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good. i'm officially NOT sleeping with Glen anymore. he actually did break up with me, if you can believe that. and not because of the sleeping around thing. we agree we're better off as friends, and the $ issue really did bother me. i haven't slept with Greg yet, but I probably will if we continue to date. so i guess as of tonight i'm only sleeping with Kevin, and only once a month or so. there's a part of me that knows i need to extract him entirely from my life, but i'm just not there yet. i really am having a hard time letting go of the sex! that's all. goodnight. |
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I don't have any STD's that I'm aware of, sorry. |
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Without warning the guy dropped by her work (she is the one who runs the OBGYN lab at her place, so she's alone there) and started talking about suicide, really over the top shit. She was scared. He was playing on her emotions. He knows how to do this well. It's getting to be a really fucked up situation. I don't want to see you in anything like that. Sometimes it is better to leave well enough alone. I am also afraid that if you are having sex with you, that maybe there is some kind of emotional attachment you are hanging on to, not letting go of, that you haven't realized. Maybe it's holding you back from truly finding what you want. I just worry about you. I want you to be happy. I don't think this is the best route. |
do what you do hoodoovoodoo so well |
and you never said who had an open invitation to sleep with you |
I don't totally worry about Sarah, only because her Karma is so good that it guarantees that she'll land on her feet. But I do worry a little bit, too, because it tends to be my nature. |