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oh, and if possible, tattoo something on her forehead that will warn other men. thanks, roger ebert |
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not that my partner suffers as yours does, but i learned last night that a few close girlfriends are like yours. a particular friend doesnt like giving blowjobs because one of her first experiences, her BF at the time, though she was gagging, wouldnt pull out. he used his on-top positioning in the ole 69 to his advantage to keep his ramrod planted in her throat. not cool of course. i feel sorry for her boyfriend today. another girlfriend of ours, who recently got some action after along hiatus and came to nico to blab (and susbsequently me)mention she went down, despite historically not really liking it, and being surprised with this particular chap that she didnt mind at all. theres hope yet. anyway, i was reminded how lucky i am. because...like a guy who doesnt like going down on his girl ...in my opinion its an incomplete relationship. like a scab that never heals. |
I will admit to being one of those women who had a horrible experience the first time (and he has the scars to prove it) and sometimes still psych myself out. I am trying to learn how to get past that. It's isn't that I don't. It's that I don't that often. |
There have been sex books written by gay men for straight women that have been great successes so I would think that this particular book, though geared for gay men, would terribly helpful for straight women. lets face it, you have an advantage when going down on the same sex no? |
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And sometimes, i wonder if they need any new teachers, and how much $$$ that pays. What a glorious and strange job that would make. the only way you can be truly great, i've found, is if you love doing it. And if you don't, there's just no point, becuase you'll get tired and cranky halfway through and then start to notice the smell, or how sticky your hand is getting, and then you start to resent it all, and turn your attention to other things like the wallpaper, or something you saw on tv, and then he'll notice, and it will really be lame. You simply must love it. It's all the advice anyone needs. *LOVE* IT. it makes a world of difference. because then it's fun for you too. |
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