i have had two or three boyfriends that just started out as friendship. two of them i was completely unattracted to. in both cases, i had these absurdly sexual dreams about them, and after that, thought about them in a different way. i think they were putting subliminal messages in my dreams. i have lost touch with one of them, who was really important to me. michael tarney, where are you? the other one and i are still buddies. however, i have had many many more male friends that i never thought of in a sexual way whatsoever. i can't speak for them, but if they were attracted to me, they did a pretty good job of hiding it.
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