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boundaries. i usually get that yellow "Police Line Do Not Cross" tape from an insider down at headquarters. if not, the "Caution" tape works as well. Girl not be wanting to freak my "boundaries" when the tape goes up. Being friendly. |
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What about if they kiss? With tongue? Then are they no longer considered "just friends"? DEFINE THE GODDAMN BOUNDARIES, YOU ICE PRINCESS. |
i spilled beer on my keyboard last night and my down arrow sticks. well, maybe not. you can only go 'down' so far as you've typed in these text boxes. i guess i've been spilling a lot of beer in my throat tonight. the majority of women i've slept with in my short heathen life have been 'just friends'. so i guess you're wrong, kathy. |
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I spent about nine years in the friendzone, playing the stand-in-wedding-date-I-don't-know-what-I'd-do-without-you-shoulder-to-whine-on-but-nothing-more-girl-friend to all my single guy friends. For various reasons (among them, emotional instability, my own and theirs) I am not friends with many of them anymore. Regardless of whether or not I speak to them now, they were indeed friendships at the time. |
OH MY GOD YOU DID NOT JUST SAY THAT fuck you by the way |
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i wish i had thought to say frigid cuntwhore. |
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Neither men, nor women have the monopoly on being manipulative, controlling, and abusive. A brilliant sorabji-lady once said, "If you are in control of yourself, no one can control you." And likewise, if you are in control of yourself, you do not need to be controlling. Now, this isn't a call for a blame-the-victim mentality. However, when you are on the outside looking in, and you see only "fucking shifty and emotionally unstable" women around you, then it's time to take charge of yourself, and say, "I deserve better than this." Complaining and blaming the opposite sex for the rest of your life isn't going to help you none. That is misogyny at its worst and is a fucking slap in the face to every intelligent and wonderful woman on this site...and in various parts of the non-sorabji universe. Hal, I'm truly surprised. You have every right to be angry at any woman who has hurt you. And if you are mad at this moment, then by all means BE MAD. But from what I can tell you are an honest and sincere guy who deserves to meet a wonderful woman. But you aren't going to find one until you let go of that attitude. |
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yes and yes and yes let's be watching the pot call the kettle black. perhaps something needs to be done about this. |
I cannot say that all women are like this, but a good fucking percentage of them. And I quote, "I'm good looking, I should be able to get what I want right?" 30 minutes later I left as she went in to fuck my buddy james. I'm sorry, but I'm 20 years old and a bitter fucking indivdual, and until someone shows me different. I stand by that fact. |
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if you weren't so outraged, you'd probably realize you agree. women complain about women as much as men do. most americans are idiots, kazoo. if you look at the population of this community you'd realize that we are not proportionally representative of the american population on either count. sheesh. women and their outrage. |
And I did say that women can be just as bad as men. Now, what part of MY post did you not understand? |
I'm not trying to be condecending, but part of being confident is accepting that you won't always get what you want every time. Not every woman you like is going to like you back, but that's how it is for everybody. Believe me, I know exactly how you feel. Also, bitterness doesn't attract nice women. Try being cynical instead. |
what a waste hal. what the hell are you doing man? you arent allowed to be bitter at 20 years old. quit your bitching and live your life already before its too late. Get in the fucking car and drive man. drive the fucking car hal!! im emotionally unstable and quite shifty. but i was almost exclusively raised by women, had youthful homosexual exploits, i often taken women's formula vitamins when im feeling low because thats all in the medicine chest (prenatals rock the house yo) and I eat this kick ass cereal in the mornings that is specifically designed for women with lots of calcium and folic acid. |
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I'm emotionally unstable, but not shifty. Where does that leave me? Hal, did you not listen to Dougie re your "WORLD FUCK ME IN THE ASS PLEASE" attitude? |
He's got the whole world in his ass (Sung to the tune of, he's got the whole world in his hands) He's got the whole world in his ass He's got the whole world in his ass He's got the whole world in his ass He's got my brothers and my sisters in his ass He's got my brothers and my sisters in his ass He's got my brothers and my sisters in his ass I'm going to stop there because then it would get offensive. |
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smack my ass If your happy and you know it, smack my ass If your happy and you know it, Your ass will surely show it If your happy and you know it, smack my ass |
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men complain about men as much as women do. |
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heather is a very wise sorabji-lady. kazoo, i'm gaining a lot of respect for you. maybe you are worthy of the llama after all ;) |
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so much for that theory. |
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Well done |
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i have. |
I have never seen a man cry at work. However, I happen to know that Suzy Wetlaufer (the former Editor of the Harvard Business Review who was fucking Jack Welch--who is now getting divorced because of it), anyway, I know that Suzy made one of the male editors at the review cry once. I also know that Suzy may be marrying Jack. That's me, always on the *inside* of corporate gossip. |
Were you saying you have seen a man cry at work (which I never have) or are you saying you have had cheap, one-night stand sex with a woman? Just curious |
where i work... mostly men. mostly gay men. and none of them have ever cried in my presence anyway. most of them could probably bench press anyone of you too....some of them give me a body image complex. ive known women to cry at work, but im not sure that proves anything. |
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maybe your workplace is particularly hard on women, i wouldn't be surprised. |
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we were talking about being unstable, correct? |
i've never heard of a man drowning all his kids. |
this could go on forever. men and women are Different. Different habits, different attitudes, different personalities, etc. So let me just say now that if anyone disagrees with anything I say, you're stupid and should just stop talking now. How 'bout that? |
The difference in teaching is bound to cause a difference in reaction to certain situations. Instability. Have you ever heard of a female serial killer? You hear about sick women killing their kids and it is horrifying, but you also hear about sick men killing numerous people. They just go about it in different ways. They use different forms of violence, but they still both use violence and still both kill. For every mother in the news who drowned her kids, there is a man in the news who raped and mutilated a 9 year old girl. Different, yes, but equally unstable. "I've never seen a guy cry because of work-related stress or being yelled at by a boss or anything." I saw it yesterday at that import/export place I was doing the temp job at. My second day of work there and after the meeting, two men were crying and one woman. No one got fired, it was because of their new job responsibilities, and who was financially liable for what mistakes in the company in the future. It was heartwrenching because the people crying were the nicest people there, the kind you instantly like because they are genuine. One guy was cussing like a drunken sailor and 3 girls were just generally pissed off, but definately two men and one woman crying. Needless to say I didn't go back. |
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i was saying i have had cheap, one-night stand sex with a woman. but i also have seen a man cry at work. i used to work for citibank. but i don't think that means anything whatsoever. |
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"Unbreakable." You probably think I'm being flippant. I ain't. |
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actually, many parts in that movie do. it's too cute to not cry over it. |
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