NO but he is and a jerk besides.... *ugh* Are you stupid?: NO but he is and a jerk besides.... *ugh*

By MoonUnit on Monday, December 14, 1998 - 10:31 pm:

    So came to work last thursday... I'd lost my voice and was feeling pretty grotty... (got to go home after lunch when the work died out but anyway...) was reading the paper and came across the heading " Man named in porn case" thought it looked interesting and continued reading and *shock* it was one of my x boyfriends *shudder* He was done for having child pornography on his puter *freak* Man... I just started whispering (coz I'd lost my voice) yuck yuck yuck yuck until one of my workmates slapped me out of it... guess that explained why he'd gone out with a 19yo (he was 30 at the time I was seeing him)... and that could explain the self help books under his bed (altho obviously they didnt help) but the clincher is... he broke it off with me because he didnt think his family could cope with the age difference between us!!!!!

    *wondering if they're coping with the fact their 33 yo son is into child pornography*

By Hrunt on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 08:10 am:

    Maybe he should take up basket weaving. It's a lot safer than taking pictures of thirteen year olds and selling them via the internet. Just a suggestion...

By Cat on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 09:58 am:

    I'm always curious about how people drag up these threads two years after the last post.

    Maybe they search things like "alien slut monkeys" and end up here.

    (Hi, fellow alien slut monkey fans, got any cards to trade?)

By semillama on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 11:59 am:

    maybe he did a search on megadeth child porn army pants?

By Hal on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 02:50 pm:

    Who knows...

    Although that is fucking sick, I'm sorry but I've lived by the equium "15 will get you 20" since I was 14. I'm 19 now and wouldn't touch a 16 or 17 year old with a 20 foot fuckin pole. People who go off and do teen porn, like 13 year olds and shit need to be beaten by large cumbersom men in leather till they whine like chihuahuas.

By semillama on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:03 pm:

    What are you, on crack? You're 19 for chrissakes. Touch all the 17 year olds you want. I was in my early 20s when I stopped dating 17 year olds.

    (due to some uncomfort about the age thing, and a lot of discomfort about the freaked out mom thing)

By Spider on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:12 pm:

    I have a mild crush on a 19-year-old, which I think is blooming sick. He looks older, though. He's very hairy.

    Oh, the shame!

By Spunky on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:16 pm:

    19 is fine to date 17 year olds. do it while you still can. if not for the 19-21 year olds, no one would date a 17 year old girl except a 17 year old boy or younger. and you know girls like the guys at least a year or two older.

    21 might be a stretch, maybe 20.....

    Of course there is 10 years between my wife's folks.

    EWWWW, a 22 year old dating a 12 year old???
    but he was 29 and she was 19 when they got married. They have now been married for 28 years this march.
    And they have not agreed on a single thing since. except whatever she says, they agree on that....

By Spunky on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:17 pm:

    Hey, face it, the girls that are 17-23 are just tight skinned and firm. hard not to look, especially during the summer

By patrick on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:25 pm:

    oh and your catholic guilt (poke poke)

    nico was 22 going on 23, when we hooked up and i was 19.

    its not sick at all.

By Spunky on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:26 pm:

    Spider, what is your age, if you don't mind?

By Hal on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:37 pm:

    Yeah but see, I've always gone for the older women because well I'm 19 and I'm commonly mistaken for being 23-24. Most of the 17-20 yearolds think I'm to far out of their range... Which is kinda fucked up.

By Spider on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 03:58 pm:

    Hmmm...I'm 23....

    It's not Catholic guilt, it's pride.

    I'll tell you about him some other day. I go home in 15 minutes and I have to finish my work.

By patrick on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:00 pm:



By Spider on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:10 pm:

    Forget work.

    No, like, I shouldn't be spending energy on someone younger than my brother (eek!) - I should be out looking for real men. Or some shit like that. I don't know! I didn't mean this as an insult to your wife or you.

By Spider on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:11 pm:

    You would like him, Patrick. I think he'd like you, too.

By Spunky on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:14 pm:

    who cares about age if you two are compatible.
    why deprive yourself of possibly the best relationship you have ever had just because he is younger then your brother....
    unless it is just lust for his body. then, well, do what you feel right doing or do what you gotta do

By patrick on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:16 pm:

    Your brother has nothing to do with this.

    Im the same age as nico's brother. It didnt mess with her.

    If he were 16, 17, maybe even 18 id most likely agree with you. Would a 26 year old consider going our with a 22 year old? Sure why not.

    You have no reason not consider dating this boy spider.

By Dougie on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 04:59 pm:

    Me: 38
    Girlfriend: 27

    Works for both me and her. She's 1 year younger than my sister too.

By moonit on Friday, June 22, 2001 - 06:42 pm:

    I dont think that physical age is important, which is why I went out with the child pornography guy in the first place.

    That really freaked me out when I read his name in the paper.

    Apparently he's married now and just had a baby.

    I wonder if his wife knows about his creepy past.

By Spider on Sunday, June 24, 2001 - 10:22 am:

    It wouldn't work between us anyway because he irritates me too much. He's too intense. He needs things to be intense and over the top at all times or else he gets bored. Well, duh, he's 19. But I'm over that stage and I find his intensity cute only up to a point. Then I want to hit him and tell him to knock it off. I can only be around him for brief periods, spread out over months.

    The sad thing is when I am with him for those periods, I REALLY like him. But I know that if I just waited a little longer, I would get fed up and need to be alone again. What kind of sick relationship would that make?

By moonit on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 03:13 am:

    So you're gonna wait for him to grow out of it and then make your spidermove?

    My friend Jules constantly has these early 20 somethings hanging off her every word. She says they make her feel young. I'd get too bored with them - it was bad enough today at work where the young-uns had no idea who Sid and Nancy were.

By patrick on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 12:09 pm:

    i was like that at 19, and still am, apparently.

    maybe some don't grow out of that. some liken it to immaturity but im thinking there is more to it, or is that just defense.

By pez on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 02:12 pm:

    suddenly, having a crush on a 27-year-old doesn't seem that bad.

    one thing about community colleges: there is a lot more diversity, age wise. most people don't realize it, but ageism is taught in most schools.

By Nate on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 03:15 pm:


By Dougie on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 03:28 pm:

    Why yes. Yes I have.

By Hal on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 05:05 pm:

    Unfourtunatly I can say the same.

    All sticky and... ugh... Fucking sick shit.

By Dougie on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 05:15 pm:

    Hal, tell the truth, you contributed to at least 50% of the "All sticky and...ugh", n'est-ce pas?

By Spunky on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 05:22 pm:

    eww, thats just nasty

By Dougie on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 05:25 pm:

    Well, I guess I'm just in a nasty mood today, Spunk.

By wisper on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 07:06 pm:

    i was 16 and seeing a 22 year old

    it didn't matter to me at the time, i mean, when i hit 22 he would be 28 and that seems fine.
    However, after we broke up and even to this day, he keeps getting older, and the girls stay the same age. I heard that after i was gone he started fucking around with a 14 year old. And i know (because of dating him for so long) that age really doesn't matter but....DAMN. He was 26 and she was fresh from grade nine. It still makes me feel slimey.

    So i changed my stance:
    Once, maybe twice is fate.
    Five times (and counting!), he's a pedophile.

By Spunky on Monday, June 25, 2001 - 07:38 pm:

    damn, 26 and 14? He is almost twice her age.
    That is pedophilia.

By J on Tuesday, June 26, 2001 - 01:45 am:

    I had an experience like Whisper,me 16,him 26,he was an asshole but we went back and forth to each other,he married someone 10 years younger than me,so 20 younger than him,divorced now,another "what was I thinking"? He was a low down dog,and now he's old and has nothing,and that's what I call karma.

By patrick on Tuesday, June 26, 2001 - 11:35 am:

    a 16 or 17 year old hippie girly has a crush on me.

By Hal on Tuesday, June 26, 2001 - 02:46 pm:

    Unless you count the beer that I ended up spillin on her and myself for an excuse to go to the bathroom and get the fuck out of there... no?

    Eat hot fuck ass.

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