The torture really does never stop Drunken Ramblings: The torture really does never stop

By J on Saturday, June 21, 2003 - 03:14 am:

    Ryan is tweaking again,they might all be,looks like the only way I'll ever get rid of him is if he goes to prison,whick he might on a class 3 felony which has a mandatory sentence of 5 to 7 years.God help me,I won't miss him.Amee is a piece of shit mother and Heather owes me rent.I am sick of all of them,and Prozac man too,we have been back home for over 3 months and my stereo is still not hooked up.I have never been so miserable in all my life.I haven't been able to keep up on the board because I watch my grandson sometimes 12 hours a day,but that still isn't enough for the bitch,she wants to party on the weekends and demands I watch Orion after a 12 hour shift,I know what a piece of shit she is,I can't stand her.Well I vented and feel a little better.Thanks:)

By eri on Saturday, June 21, 2003 - 01:48 pm:

    I am sorry things are so tough right now. Wish I could help. I'd hook up your radio if I could :)

    A question for you...not meant to offend in any watching Orion 12 hours a day and during the bitches party times, could you be making it easier for her to be a lousy mother? I mean, if you didn't watch the boy and she had to, would that help her to be a better mother? Just a thought. It's that reason why I have to step back from taking care of my nephew when my sister is around. If I take care of him that just makes it easier for her to be a petulant little shit who whines and sleeps all of the time, and doesn't give a shit about her son.

    Anyways, I hope that things get better and if there is anything I can do I would be glad to help.

By J on Monday, June 23, 2003 - 12:12 pm:

    Actually she was calling me a bitch because I wouldn't watch him Fri. or Sat. night so she could party,poor little guy had a bad earache with crap coming out of his ear.Amee only works till noon on Fri. and Sat.,I told her Fri. to take him to the Dr. but she couldn't be bothered,since I wouldn't watch Orion for her ,she was going to take him to the party and that upset Heather so she watched him Sat. took him to the Dr. and kept him overnight so the Ho could party,Sunday she drug the little guy up to Roosevelt Dam in an un-airconditioned car while he's sick with an earache.Nope,watching him less wouldn't make her any more maternal,she doesn't have the ability to put her childrens needs before her own,it's all about her.Her oldest son see's how she is and dreads the weekends she gets him because she just has her friends over and parties and makes him stay in his room,she never does anything speacial with him.The only reason she had Orion was because we had washed our hands of her about four years ago and she conned her sister for a plane ticket out here as soon as she knew she was pregnant,Jerry came on a bus.No she's just pure evil. I must confess when I first posted here it was not my own thoughts but a character that was a combo of both Amee and Heather, I called Slut.Heather has finally straightened out,and has made all A's at Phoenix College.Amee is hopeless,a lost cause.I dread seeing her today.

By eri on Monday, June 23, 2003 - 01:56 pm:

    Sounds like Amee and my sister need to avoid each other at all costs, cuz they are too much alike. The only reason we get anywhere with my sister, is because she has lost custody of Christopher and if she doesn't listen she could get into legal trouble and lose any claim she thinks she might have to him. For some reason the idea of losing Christopher permanently means jail time to her and she is scared of going back to jail, so if I say, take him to the doctor, she will get it done within a week or tell mom to do it. Thank God she doesn't have anything more than visitation.

    I am glad that Heather is doing much better. I am just worried about what this will do to your family having this person in the home giving such horrible care to the baby. My ususal advice is kick the bitch out and take the baby, but it isn't always that easy.

    Again, if there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.

By Spider on Monday, June 23, 2003 - 02:04 pm:

    J, can't you call CPS on Amee?

By eri on Monday, June 23, 2003 - 03:16 pm:

    If she calls CPS on Amee, she will have had to have kicked Amee out of the house if she wants to get foster parent rights and retain custody of the child (which I assume you would) but it gets really complicated, and sometimes taking care of that extra child is really difficult. My parents are going through that now with Christopher. Going through all of the normal childhood phases when they are grandparents, it's much harder on them.

By J on Tuesday, June 24, 2003 - 11:29 am:

    CPS wouldn't be of any help here,they just found a 7 year old boy locked and starved in a closet and come to find out there where nine case reports to CPS about his family,his grandmother finally called the police because she hadn't seen him in months and the police got involved,thank God.Amee has been on her own for about a year and a half,she just bought a house 2 miles from me.I called CPS about a little boy that Heather had told me about when she was a kindengarden aid,he was hungry,tired had rotten teeth,a little sister at home that he stole food for and a shitbag tweaker for a mom,they told me that was a lifestyle choice.Heather took Orion to the Dr. Sat. and he got ear drops,yesterday when she dropped him off the bottle was empty and his ear is still draining.She needs to get some more,I tolld her yesterday,but she doesn't get off work till 9p.m. so I doubt if she did.

By J on Tuesday, June 24, 2003 - 11:48 am:

By eri on Tuesday, June 24, 2003 - 12:39 pm:

    There was a similar case to this in Missouri. A woman who had triplets. She locked two of them in the closet and at 9 years old they weighed 40 lbs when they were found. Pictures on the news showed their little ribs sticking out for inches. This was like the 5th call to CPS, maybe more, I don't remember exactly. The system is fucked any way you look at it.

By J on Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 06:02 pm:

    We had a blow-out Tue.she was going to take off work to take him to the doctor,she called me a 3p.m. and told me to make sure he was dressed she was on her way.He had been up all day and was ready for a nap,but I put his clothes and shoes on and we waited and waited,I called her cell phone to get a handle on where she was and she hung up on me and she didn't get here till almost 5p.m. and by then I was pissed,she should have been here in less than a half hour.Words where exchanged with her screaming at me and calling me names for all the neighbors to hear,the last thing she said was I'll never see Orion again.I put her on call rejection,yesterday she got Heather to watch him,today I guess he's in day care.All yesterday she kept calling me from her work trying to suck up,I never answered but she left messages on my voice mail.Plus I might smoke it,but I'd never be as stupid as her driving with pot and her baby in the car.She's so warped,she doesn't seem to get that she's already a felon,and a moron.

By eri on Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 10:11 pm:

    I am glad you put your foot down. It's hard to do, but I am glad you did it. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, and don't let her walk on you, as hard as that might be (you wanting to be a part of Orion's life).

By J on Friday, June 27, 2003 - 02:04 pm:

    I probably will still watch him Mon. and Tue. as she works from noon to 9.p.m.,and this is why she pisses me off,she can make it to work in a half an hour,so I'm thinking she'll drop him off around 11:30 but she drops him off at 9 a.m. because her "boyfriend" has to be at work by 10.a.m. if she was paying me she'd think twice about that.I'll probably watch him Sat.too she works till noon then,I haven't seen him since tue. and I already miss him he's quite the little talker the other day he was in the bathroom singing "hanging out down the street,same old thing we did last week" from That 70's Show and I just cracked up.

By J on Sunday, March 14, 2004 - 02:25 am:

    I have never been so depressed in all my life,I haven't seen Jonathon since the end of June,so I paid a paralegal to serve papers on them for violating a court order and a custody modification.I didn't see Czarina at Thanksgiving when she came out,she might be mad at me but I was really sick.Missed Antigone, when I have a title to 3 cars and we only have one here,something is wrong.I own my moms townhome,paid in full and could be getting rent on it but Heather is living there for free,and I still have to pay $105.00 a month for the H.O.A. fee.I'm so fucked and I know it.I've had some bad times in my life,but the times i'm going through now seem the worse.But at least nobody can take Orion from me.It keeps me going.

By patrick on Monday, March 15, 2004 - 12:49 pm:

    oh sweetie its a source of infinite frustration for me to hear that your general kindness is so often taken advantage of.

    is it time for a vacation?

By Antigone on Monday, March 15, 2004 - 03:03 pm:

    Hang in there, J. We're all rootin' for ya.

    And Heather should pay that fee. It's the least she can do...

By kazu on Monday, March 15, 2004 - 03:29 pm:

    I'm sorry things are so tough right now.

By kazu on Monday, March 15, 2004 - 03:31 pm:

    hey, that's what eri said before. likewise, I wish I could help. it is frustrating to hear, as Patrick said.

By J on Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 01:22 am:

    Vacation? I wish,we went to Greer in the White Mountains for two nights this summer,and when we got back I discovered that we had been robbed,at least two thousand dollars worth of jewlery,a video,game(A bugs life)my windows 98 C.D,,all my Neil Young C.D.'s and checks taken from the account where I put the money my mom left me,finally found out that it was all Ryan.They have mandatory sentences here,my husband guilt tripped me not to charge.I have the money and the time to go back to Costa Rica I love it there,but it's just a dream,I'm a prisoner here and I know it.And I'm going to be a grandma again,in Nov. and I'm not even 50 and it will be my 3'rd I knew that little breeder bitch would do this,it's how she operates.

By J on Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 01:24 am:

    God,now that I saw what I posted,that sounds shitty even from me,you just have to be here.

By semillama on Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 10:39 am:

    Screw your husband, press charges. You can't let this go on. You know Ryan's just going to do it again since he knows he can get away with it. IF your husband won't support you, you're going to have to get support from somewhere else, probably the courts.

By The Watcher on Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 07:17 pm:

    Hang in there J.

By J on Friday, March 19, 2004 - 01:46 am:

    Ryan stole over 9 thousand dollars from the account I open with the money my mom left me,we thought since he's on probation and this came out,he'd at least have to go to jail but no,as far as I can see probation is a joke.

By dave. on Friday, March 19, 2004 - 03:11 am:

    sweetie, close that door, change the lock.

    i'm sorry, mama.

By patrick on Friday, March 19, 2004 - 12:31 pm:

    for reals j, close the door. turn out the lights and change the locks. you spawn have robbed you way too many times.

By Lapis on Friday, March 19, 2004 - 01:33 pm:

    Do it.

By J on Tuesday, March 23, 2004 - 01:08 am:

    Now Ryan is having a kid,I'll have two grandkids in Nov.,God help me.

By wisper on Tuesday, March 23, 2004 - 01:19 am:

    i'm so sorry J, i wish i could help......

By J on Tuesday, March 23, 2004 - 12:33 pm:

    I'm at the point where I'm wishing marriage licenses had to be renewed every year,cause I'd be so "I love you honey but I'm not renewing this year,going to have to let you go,maybe in a year or two".For that matter birth certificates too. Amee's due November 11th and Krity is due on the 21st,I'm trying to get a grip,and there is a part of me wishing granddaughters.I just don't get the concept of people that can't even take care of themselves bringing babies in this world.Amee isn't mother of the year,she never grasped the concept of putting your kids ahead of yourself or taking care of her needs instead of wants.Maybe I'll take Orion and the babies and flee to Canada:)

By wisper on Tuesday, March 23, 2004 - 05:58 pm:

    hey, nows the time!

By J on Thursday, April 1, 2004 - 02:44 am:

    Today I was on my computer next to the room I have my sugar gliders in,I heard a squeak-bark when the critters are supposed to be asleep,went in there and one was out gnawing at the pouch they sleep in,I've never seen him do this.Then I saw his tiny little foot was caught in the hook that holds up their pouch they sleep in and he was trying to chew off his foot to get out,I FREAKED!!!!! They are so tiny.I even put my hair up so that a hair doesn't get around their little digits and amputate a toe or something.I unhooked the end that he wasn't on and it freed him,but when he tried to get around,I can tell his front paw is hurt,he kind of dragged it,then his brother came out.They don't like to be stared at so I left the room,when I came back,they were both in their pouch.I'm waiting to see if they come out tonight,if he doesn't I'm calling the vet.

By J on Thursday, April 1, 2004 - 03:20 am:

    I think he's o.k.

By V.v. on Thursday, April 1, 2004 - 05:01 pm:

    Perhaps its just a one off occurrence?

By J on Tuesday, April 6, 2004 - 02:48 am:

    Yes,it was,he's o.k,but I should have got a minature pincher.

By The Watcher on Tuesday, April 6, 2004 - 04:36 pm:

    Can I assume your "sugar gliders" are ferrets?

By heather on Tuesday, April 6, 2004 - 04:53 pm:

    you could, but that would be strange

By The Watcher on Tuesday, April 6, 2004 - 05:07 pm:

    It was just a guess.

By J on Tuesday, April 6, 2004 - 07:25 pm:

    Actually they are more related to possums,they are marsupialsCheck out the gallery here,there are movies too.

By The Watcher on Wednesday, April 7, 2004 - 02:46 pm:

    I never heard of them before.

    They are adorable.

    I better not show them to my wife. She'll want one. And, the cats would find them delicious!!!

By eri on Wednesday, April 7, 2004 - 06:55 pm:

    We just had the last hamster die. Hamster cage is about to be gone. I wonder how long it will be before Spunky wants to get a sugar glider. They are cute and fun to play with (in small doses), but damn, it's just another animal to take care of.

By beta on Thursday, April 8, 2004 - 02:03 am:

    "they don't like to be stared at..."

    (all i hear in my head is "I am NOT an animaaaal!"

By J on Thursday, April 8, 2004 - 02:33 pm:

    LOL,I think of them as my babies,I'm looking for a drawstring pouch to wear them on me to bond.Ryan's jealous cause I cook for them,they are so cute.

By J on Wednesday, May 12, 2004 - 12:09 pm:

    I don't even know where to begin,I mentioned on this thread that I had lent Amee money to take her ex to court for violating a court order.We haven't seen Jonathon in almost a year.He filed some papers in court that she allegedly,mentally.physically and sexually abused him.When she got the papers she called him on April 27th,and told him that was bullshit and if she really did these things why didn't he file a police report? So she gave him the big idea of filing one,which he did April 30th.This is sooo wrong and I'm so mad,did I mention he ex's brother-in-law is a cop?Anyway poor Jonathon.Looks like we need a lawyer now.I'm just sick over this.

By J on Wednesday, May 12, 2004 - 01:55 pm:

    She lost the baby too,if there ever was one.

By V.v. on Wednesday, May 12, 2004 - 10:34 pm:

    J,sometimes i wish i had a big magic wand,so i could make every thing better,and back to the old days,when every thing was go through so much shit,you just dont deserve this.

By J on Monday, May 17, 2004 - 12:02 pm:

    Thanks VV,went to a law firm last Wed,paid a retainer,but we are going to speak to the lawyer today at 5p.m. Got the police report last Fri.,it is nothing but lies,but they did take a statement from Jonathon.It's so sad that they would put him up to this,I feel so very sorry for that kid.I've just been sick.

By J on Thursday, May 20, 2004 - 08:15 pm:

    This is serious,she hasn't been arrested yet,but I don't have a good feeling about this at all.The stress is killing me and the last thing he said to her was he'd see that she loses her little bastard too.Send some prayers our way please.

By kazu on Thursday, May 20, 2004 - 09:54 pm:

    J, I'm so sorry. This really really sucks. I'll be thinking of you.

By J on Friday, May 21, 2004 - 05:17 pm:

    I appreciate it,at this point the custody case is not going to happen.

By The Watcher on Thursday, May 27, 2004 - 02:29 pm:

    Good Luck J.

By Dodi on Thursday, May 27, 2004 - 11:14 pm:

    Hang in there.

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