i could if i tried harder, or if you didnt try so hard.

Ok... For some reason, and don't get me wrong there has to be a reason... THAT MADE NO FUCKING SENSE.

I think I get it... have you ever had a person that you thought was great, but they were just not right for you for one reason or another? Maybe they tried to please you too much, or you just couldn't see them as something other than a friend? It happens all the time. Two people who, if they only had the chemistry (or whatever it is the makes love happen), would be the perfect (or near perfect) mates.

oh ok... Thank you Spiral... Couldn't quite figure out what it meant...

What's wrong with trying to please?

Note that she said "maybe they tried to please you too much."

What's wrong with trying to please too much?

wrist aches?

What about when there are two people,who for some inexplicable reason,have incrediably strong chemistry between them,when they shouldn't?The kind of kinetic reaction,that when that other person is anywhere in their general proximity,their body is keenly aware of their presence,even though they haven't been seen. Like your skin is some kind of sonar receptor. Bleep Bleep Bleep 3-o-clock Bleep Bleep Bleep The harder you try to avoid encounters,the more intense the kinetic energy. What makes that chemistry happen?

dunno. it used to be , if i found a guy extremely attractive, i'd have a certain smell connected with him. it would be a person who didn't wear cologne or aftershave, and it wouldn't be b.o. either. oh boy is it a good time to go pee? i gotta go pee potty potty potty potty where's the restroom i hope nothing happens while i'm on the pot. that's what my body has a tendency to do. hyperactive bouncing off the walls and whistling the star spangled banner while waving a pirate flag. and hunger is diminished. the need for water and other tasty beverages increased, so you have something to hold, to clutch in hope that you'll be clutching something else later. slightly lightheaded. giggly, as if drunk or high, but with a quicker reaction time. but i'm no expert. wait. i maybe an expert on getting crushes, but am completely clueless when it comes to relationships. i shouldn't even have to say that. should be a given.

Notwolf: thanks. Now if I could just figure out how to tell HER that. at least now I know what I meant.

Yes,and we also now know,that when Pez has the hots for a guy,she has to pee.

notwolf...you came back here. now when are you coming back *here*?

hmmmmmmm

....Pez and her absolute need to pee when a cute guy is in the room.... That has to be uncomfortable everytime your with a cute guy.

better than getting gas everytime a hot guy steps within two feet of ya...

it's not like i need to pee all the time when i'm around guys i like... it's just that my bladder seems smaller, y'know? it's not like i'm filled to bursting but my body tries to tell be that it's time to go. it's not like i have more urine or anything. gawd. how ridiculous.